BDSM dating · United States
Meet your submissive, dominant or both
Kink dating for Americans who already know which side of the power exchange they enjoy, and for those still finding out.
Free to join · 18+ only · Discreet billing
Start with your role
Sub
You want someone else to set the rules.
Dom
You like to lead, carefully.
Switch
You enjoy both, depending on the day.
A kink site where women are the majority
About two in three members are women, which turns the usual adult-dating maths upside down. California, New York, Florida and Texas are the busiest states, and the biggest age group is 25 to 34.
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Role, interests and the limits you will not cross.
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Negotiate in messages
Talk through roles and limits before anything else.
Meet in public
Coffee or a drink first; play comes later.
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Mistress Nickie, 29
Wolverhampton
If you’re searching for someone who knows how to mix pleasure with a bit of pain, look no further. I’m a seductive soul who thrives on excitement and the electric charge of discipline. Together, we can dive deep into the realms of bondage and unleash our desires in the most exhilarating ways. Are you ready to play?
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Mistress, 43
Shooters Hill
Are you ready to submit yourself to a new mistress and be humble enough to obey the commands of a mistress and be submissive to desire and cravings of mistress.
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lordsna517, 31
Doncaster
Pretty open minded, will do much of anything just ask :)
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Quick answers
Does it cost anything to join?
No. Profiles, browsing and a daily allowance of messages are free; VIP is optional, see prices.
Is this the same as the UK Sub Dom Switch?
It is the US site, with US members. Your account here is separate.
What appears on my card statement?
VIP uses a neutral billing name.
Which states are busiest?
California, New York, Florida and Texas. See all states.