How matches are suggested
Each day you get suggestions based on age range, gender and who you are looking for, distance, how recently people have been active, the kind of relationship you want (including friendship), lifestyle habits such as drinking and smoking, interests and hobbies, and beliefs and values. Tag interests like Dom, Sub, Switch, Collaring, Contract or Bondage & Discipline and they count too.
The toolkit
Role on every profile
Sub, dom or switch, up front.
Messages
Free daily allowance; unlimited on VIP.
Private galleries
Share photos with chosen members (VIP).
Calendars and blog
Plans and guides from the community.
Photo-ID badge
Free to get.
Image blur
Explicit pictures stay hidden until you tap.
Block and report
Checked around the clock.
Membership levels
| Feature | Classic (free) | VIP | VIP+ |
|---|---|---|---|
| Create an account, browse profiles, daily match suggestions | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Limited daily messages | Yes | Unrestricted | Unrestricted |
| Read and reply to VIP and VIP+ messages | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Free ID verification and badges | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Advanced search filters | No | Yes | Yes |
| Exclusive chat room, private group chats (up to 50) | No | Yes | Yes |
| See everyone who likes you; rewind swipes | No | Yes | Yes |
| Exclusive matches; priority message and like placement | No | No | Yes |
| Top of the match stack; boosted visibility and Super Match add-ons | No | No | Yes |
Common questions
Do I need VIP to reply to messages?
No. Free members can reply to VIP and VIP+ members.
Can I hide my photos?
Yes. Put them in a private gallery for chosen members.