Submit yourself here
Handing over control should feel safe, chosen and exciting. Here is how to find the person to give it to.
What submission looks like here
Some subs want a few hours of being told what to do. Others want rules that last all week. Say which on your profile, along with what you are curious about, and the doms who reply will already be thinking along the same lines.
Checks before you agree to anything
| Ask | A good answer |
|---|---|
| How do you handle limits? | They ask for yours first |
| What happens after a scene? | They describe aftercare |
| Can we video call? | Yes, happily |
| Where shall we meet? | Somewhere public |
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Mistress, 43
Kingsthorpe
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Shane, 24
London
Sweet on the outside, spicy on the inside ️.
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Mistress Nickie, 29
Wolverhampton
If you’re searching for someone who knows how to mix pleasure with a bit of pain, look no further. I’m a seductive soul who thrives on excitement and the electric charge of discipline. Together, we can dive deep into the realms of bondage and unleash our desires in the most exhilarating ways. Are you ready to play?
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Therealmartinachen, 31
London
Power is most intoxicating when it’s rooted in truth. Tell me what genuinely excites you. What brings you pleasure? What makes you feel alive? I value self-awareness and confidence — know yourself before you approach me.
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Mistress, 43
Shooters Hill
Are you ready to submit yourself to a new mistress and be humble enough to obey the commands of a mistress and be submissive to desire and cravings of mistress.
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lordsna517, 31
Doncaster
Pretty open minded, will do much of anything just ask :)
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Verified profiles, genuine people
Any member can take a free photo-ID check and earn a badge. Look for it, and ask for a video call before a first meeting.
Common questions
Are there female dominants?
Yes. Women are the majority of members, and many list Dom or Dominatrix.
I am a total beginner. Is that OK?
Yes. Say so on your profile and read how to negotiate a first scene.